Saturday, November 19, 2005

You Have the Power: a Challenge

I'm in the library pretending to do work. Pretending being the operative word in that sentence as I am clearly actually blogging and not writing a paper on human rights violations. Ahh well.

So, since I've found my merry way to Blogger, I just wanted to share a not-so-deep thought: acknowledgement and praise can sometimes make all the difference. It's nice to be told you did good when you did in fact do good in whatever sense. When you work hard at something, it's nice to know that someone noticed. And, sure, it may be stupid to get super happy by a little comment or e-mail or IM, but it does matter.

I don't mind giving my heart and soul to a certain extra curricular I am a part of. I don't mind the late, late nights and the sleep deprivation. I actually love it (in some strange way). But you know what? It makes all the difference that I got an e-mail today saying thank you and saying that my work mattered. It made me feel a whole lot better about the fact that when I went to sleep at 1 a.m. last night I realized that I had only slept two of the previous 40 hours. It made me feel good about my contribution. It made me feel appreciated.

So, in conclusion (before I return to the black hole of Butler Library), we all have the power to make someone feel better. Give a compliment. Tell someone something nice. Acknowledge someone's hard work. Because you can.

6 Comments:

At 11/19/05, 6:57 PM, Blogger Keren Perles said...

[compliment] Good post. [/compliment]

 
At 11/19/05, 7:55 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

However much I have no idea what you are talking about of your situation, I know we all need our praise and compliments (and comments!) I totally know how you feel about putting in the hours and feeling dejected when no one else recognizes it. Just remember, He knows how hard you work and will repay you. (and we love reading your blog, even if we don't always comment.)
Don't work too hard though, or you'll have no time to blog!

 
At 11/20/05, 7:11 PM, Blogger Devorah said...

Apparently Stx is inventing her own coding language...recovering CS majors, whaddya expect...

 
At 11/21/05, 4:25 AM, Blogger Keren Perles said...

Devorah - I deserved that. I just tried giving someone CMSC 201 help one night last week. I TOLD her I was the wrong person to call...

 
At 11/21/05, 8:26 AM, Blogger Eli7 said...

Frum Single, I may be a Columbia snob but I don't think that wanting recognition for going above and beyond my duty is snobby. I don't think it's snobby to want to be appreciated when you work hard. It's human.

Of course, there are a million people who deserve my gratitude and of course I should be better at showing it to them, but recognizing how much that acknowledgment means, even in my self-centered way, is a step toward that, not away from it.

(And, incidentally, I am not an English major and thus don't read any literature in Butler, but I actually value my education and I don't think it's stupid. There is chochma b'goyim and it would do you good to recognize that.)

 
At 12/3/05, 6:17 PM, Blogger Devorah said...

Stx - inventing new languages (but not making them functional by building compilers like in the good ol' days) is how we cope when we suddenly miss coding.
OK, maybe that's just me and the other CS majors who have abandoned the fold...

 

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